If you are reasonable, and decide to simply be somebody, <br> 
you can achieve your "be somebody" objective and wrap up<br>
your very successful life, having offended nobody, <br>
and with nobody caring that you actually lived.<br>
Display  your certificates, medals and trophies proudly, <br>
and retire happy.  Try not to think too much about the fact that<br> 
you'll be forgotten the week after you die, your certificates, <br>
medals and trophies mothballed in boxes in attics, to be eventually<br>
gotten rid of by an indifferent great-grandchild.